Why insight isn't enough
Understanding a pattern can be the beginning of change, not proof that change has occurred.
Why do humans understand their patterns, name their fears, recognise their biases — and still struggle to act differently? Welcome to an independent lab for questions that refuse to stay inside textbooks.
Psychology offers useful maps, not a complete instruction manual for being human. These are the territories this lab explores.
Understanding a pattern can be the beginning of change, not proof that change has occurred.
How attention, memory and judgment simplify reality — sometimes helpfully, sometimes misleadingly.
Friction, habits, environments, incentives and the surprisingly difficult business of doing.
Distinguishing genuine choice from constraints, chance and stories we tell ourselves about control.
Boundaries, reciprocity, attachment and the difference between observation and mind-reading.
Informal power, identity, motivation and human capital — from management classrooms to family retail.
People can construct sophisticated identities — curious, capable, disciplined, compassionate — while everyday behaviour lags behind those self-descriptions. The Identity–Action Gap is my working framework for examining that mismatch and the frictions that sustain it.
Its central question is not “Why are people weak?” but “What prevents intentions and self-concepts from becoming observable behaviour?” The framework considers identity, action, environmental conditions, social context and friction.
Research status: conceptual, exploratory and open to empirical testing. This is not a validated diagnostic scale or an established clinical theory.
Explore Sahil's wider research and writing →I'm Sahil Tayal, an MBA graduate of Jamnalal Bajaj Institute of Management Studies (JBIMS), Mumbai, with a background in commerce, professional services and human resources.
My interest in organisational behaviour extends beyond formal institutions. My family's retail business in Mehrauli, Delhi, offers a daily vantage point on incentives, trust, informal authority and the gap between theories of behaviour and behaviour itself.
I write as an independent researcher and practitioner, not as a licensed psychologist or mental-health clinician. My ideas are hypotheses to examine, not truths to impose.
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“The point isn't to have the final answer about human nature. It's to ask better questions — and remain willing to change our minds.”
— Sahil Tayal